That's not a character flaw. That's masking burnout.
I help neurospicy women business owners (late-diagnosed autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, OCD, PTSD, complex trauma, or simply "always been a bit different") unlearn the habits oppressive systems hardwired into their nervous systems, behaviors, and patterns.
So change becomes something the body can actually sustain.
You've done the work… read the books, hired the coaches, sat in therapy for years, and feel like something is still missing.
You're not broken.
The system is.
That's not a character flaw. That's masking burnout.
I help neurospicy women business owners (late-diagnosed autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, OCD, PTSD, complex trauma, or simply "always been a bit different") unlearn the habits oppressive systems hardwired into their nervous systems, behaviors, and patterns.
So change becomes something the body can actually sustain.
You've done the work… read the books, hired the coaches, sat in therapy for years, and feel like something is still missing.
You're not broken.
The system is.
than a one-size-fits-all approach.
You deserve better
than a one-size-fits-all approach.
You deserve better
Whether you're running a service business, a creative practice, or building something that doesn't fit the standard playbook, the systems you've been navigating make every part of it harder. Especially when your nervous system was never built for them.
More stress. More masking. More coping. More denying your own needs. More decision fatigue you can feel in your jaw. More Sunday Scaries that started Saturday afternoon. More sensory overload after the meeting that "shouldn't" have been overwhelming. More late-night Googling "high-masking autistic adult" or "adult ADHD in women."
More moments where your body votes against the strategy and your mind tells it to push through. This is what masking burnout looks like in a business. It's predictable. It's also unsustainable.
It's what happens when capable women try to grow a business inside systems never built for their nervous system, their neurology, or their lived experience. It's time to stop shrinking to fit them.
Whether you're running a service business, a creative practice, or building something that doesn't fit the standard playbook, the systems you've been navigating make every part of it harder. Especially when your nervous system was never built for them.
More stress. More masking. More coping. More denying your own needs. More decision fatigue you can feel in your jaw. More Sunday Scaries that started Saturday afternoon. More sensory overload after the meeting that "shouldn't" have been overwhelming. More late-night Googling "high-masking autistic adult" or "adult ADHD in women."
More moments where your body votes against the strategy and your mind tells it to push through. This is what masking burnout looks like in a business. It's predictable. It's also unsustainable.
It's what happens when capable women try to grow a business inside systems never built for their nervous system, their neurology, or their lived experience. It's time to stop shrinking to fit them.
Your burnout isn’t a failure. It’s evidence of how hard you’ve been working to survive systems that were never built for you in the first place.
These systems create:
chronic stress
emotional overload
endless masking
a life lived from survival, not choice
Your burnout isn’t a failure. It’s evidence of how hard you’ve been working to survive systems that were never built for you in the first place.
These systems create:
chronic stress
emotional overload
endless masking
a life lived from survival, not choice
I'm tired of watching brilliant women business owners shrink inside systems never built for their leadership, their neurodivergence, their emotions, or their lived experience.
For the women whose nervous systems were never built for the standard approach, by neurology, by trauma, or both, these systems don't just live in the workplace. They live in our nervous systems, our behaviors, and the stories we've been told about who we're allowed to be. I work with three modalities most coaches sell separately:
The integration is the work.
Most coaches in this space have one of these. I have all three, plus the lived experience of being a high-masking autistic woman who built two businesses on top of a body that was telling me, in increasingly loud ways, that the approach didn't fit. This isn't about staying small to survive. It's about breaking free… on your own damn terms.
For the women whose nervous systems were never built for the standard approach, by neurology, by trauma, or both, these systems don't just live in the workplace. They live in our nervous systems, our behaviors, and the stories we've been told about who we're allowed to be. I work with three modalities most coaches sell separately:
- The Enneagram, as a body-based behavioral map (not the over-intellectualized version)
- Somatic Experiencing, because you can't out-think a nervous system in survival mode
- Applied Behavioral Science, with 20 years of credentials behind every session
The integration is the work.
Most coaches in this space have one of these. I have all three, plus the lived experience of being a high-masking autistic woman who built two businesses on top of a body that was telling me, in increasingly loud ways, that the approach didn't fit. This isn't about staying small to survive. It's about breaking free… on your own damn terms.
This work is personal.
What I Actually Do
I help women identify and unlearn the patterns that are running their lives, the ones you didn’t choose, but inherited from systems that demanded your compliance instead of your humanity.
Using the Enneagram, Somatic Experiencing, and behavioral science, we create change at the root: your nervous system, your habits, your identity, and your capacity.
Together, we:
This isn’t about staying small to survive. It’s about breaking free… on your own damn terms.
Using the Enneagram, Somatic Experiencing, and behavioral science, we create change at the root: your nervous system, your habits, your identity, and your capacity.
Together, we:
- uncover the unconscious habits running your life
- understand how your nervous system learned to survive
- safely unlearn what no longer supports you
- rebuild your capacity and clarity from the inside out
This isn’t about staying small to survive. It’s about breaking free… on your own damn terms.
I'm an applied behavioral scientist, somatic practitioner, and Enneagram teacher. I help neurospicy women business owners (late-diagnosed, suspecting, or simply wired differently) break the habits oppressive systems hardwired into their nervous systems, behaviors, and patterns. So change becomes something their bodies can actually sustain.
This work is deeply personal.
I spent 20 years building businesses on top of a body I thought was just bad at being one. I masked. I over-functioned. I people-pleased my way to "success" and lost myself doing it. At 43, an evaluator said: "you're a high-masking autistic woman," and twenty years of masking burnout finally had a structural explanation. Through years of integration work (somatic, behavioral, and Enneagram) I found her again.
Now I help other neurospicy women find her, too.
This work is deeply personal.
I spent 20 years building businesses on top of a body I thought was just bad at being one. I masked. I over-functioned. I people-pleased my way to "success" and lost myself doing it. At 43, an evaluator said: "you're a high-masking autistic woman," and twenty years of masking burnout finally had a structural explanation. Through years of integration work (somatic, behavioral, and Enneagram) I found her again.
Now I help other neurospicy women find her, too.
Hi, I'm Erin!
This framework empowers women not to “improve” themselves, but to reclaim the parts of them that systems tried to suppress… all while living and leading from their full, grounded, regulated selves.
Reconnecting with the body's wisdom to foster presence and resilience.
SOMATICS
Implementing practical tools to create sustainable change.
bEHAVIORAL
Uncovering the core motivations and patterns that drive behavior.
ENNEAGRAM
My Integrative Approach
- Understand the patterns running your business and which ones are protecting you vs. costing you
- Build a calendar your nervous system can actually sustain (not someone else's productivity playbook)
- Stop apologizing for how your brain works
- Make decisions from capacity instead of urgency, fear, or scarcity
- Notice your body's no before it becomes burnout (sensory cues, overload signals, the tightness in your jaw)
- Set prices, hire team, retire offers based on what actually fits your neurology
- Communicate your needs without the shame spiral about why they exist
- Trust your own sensory and energy patterns instead of overriding them
- Stop white-knuckling a life that keeps demanding more than your nervous system can give
What We Can Work On Together
